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Battling Low Self Esteem 

When one battles low self esteem, half the time we are battling a lot of self neglect and lack of confidence amongst other things. 

We are reluctant to put ourselves first because we have doubts and always second guessing our abilities to do things that we are even good at. 

Sometimes the inability to accept compliments and dwelling only on the negatives are another factor also. 

Here are a few things to try…. 

Make conscious effort to take credit for all that you do even if it means writing them down so you remember, do the things that stimulate your creativity. 

Learn to spot the negatives and keep them at bay, change your circle to those who only respect, know your worth and are not afraid to shout it from the roof top. 

Positive relationships that will boost your esteem is the key of interaction in and out of the office. 

It is OK to challenge yourself but do not over criticize yourself, do not ever entertain the thought that you are inadequate or unworthy. 

Most importantly Be Kind To Yourself. 

Stay FABulous. 


Hellooo Monday (New Week Stylespiration) 

It’s a new week let’s quickly share with you our favorite things for this  week.  

Yeah because not every time stylespiration for ladies only sometimes we do both also because we can 🙂 

Hope this brightens your week, 

Be FABulous. 

The Perfect Wardrobe Cluster


A perfect wardrobe is built in clusters..

Little pieces that you can mix and match.

in order to build a perfect cluster chose clothing that you can mix and match in colors that compliment each other.

Eg a skirt that fits every jacket you own and a jacket that fits both skirts and trousers that you own.

You don’t need to have too many clothes to achieve this all you need is enough clothes to swap with and more accessories

accessories 20% clothes 10%

Even those on a budget can do this as well because its not the amount of clothes you have but the ability to carefully choose your pieces, to be able to curb the urge to buy things you don’t need and buying only relevant timeless pieces.

a simple colorful scarf can put a spin in an outfit or a broach, this is why having more accessories is one the keys.

Carefully planning your outfits so as to look effortless stylish is another major key.

Be FABulous.


Stylespiration For The Week

This weeks stylespiration has a bit of everything..!



What do you think?



Enjoy Your Week….!

Be FABulous.

Top 5 Lippies For Vals Day




Its Valentines day.. in a bit, how are you preparing?

These lipstick picks will leave you looking smooky hot and stylish..!

I think you should try them not just for vals day but they are very welcomed in every makeup bag because each color speaks volumes and it gives a different sophisticated look each time you wear it.

These are colors I cant cant get enough of, I thought i should share with you *wink*

Be FABulous

7 Ways To Build Your Character


its ideal to have a strong character, here are ways that can help,

  • Be Truthful
  • Be Courageous
  • Be Emphatic
  • Surround Yourself With People You Can Learn From
  • Self Improvement Is A Goal
  • Build On Yourself Confidence

Be FABulous

New Week StyleSpiration..

Here is a mix of work clothes and casual ideas to jump start your week, hope it helps.

Have A Wonderful New Week,

Be FABulous







Christmastime Is Harmattan Season (Stylespiration)


Its Christmas & Harmattan Season, here are some harmattan Stylespiration To Brighten Your Hazy & Dusty Days.







Be You, Be Unstoppable, Be FABulous, Cheers..!

Looking Stylish For Less…

We usually believe that owing luxury/ designer clothing or accessories makes us stylish, that’s not true..!


You can be stylish by choosing the pieces in your wardrobe carefully & inexpensively.
That goes to say that you can look a lot stylish for less.


Have a detailed plan on what you would like in your wardrobe they go source for it in a discount store or thrift store, you might find them in OK (secondhand clothing) shops.

Most times its your ability to drive hard bargains that gets you the best deals.

Be Fabulous.

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