The Stylehelper

Image Consultant|Style•Personal Brand/Image Coach|Wardrobe Expert • MUA | Redefining African Fashion.

The Stylehelper’s Hack To Bluffing Your Way Through


Ladies Confidence Matter: when they said confidence is the most important thing to wear, twas not a lie..!

Men Confidence matter also,there’s nothing like a confident man he stands taller than other men in the room, no matter his height.



Wear Your Confidence !!!

Don’t Sound Or Look UNSURE, except for drama sake.

Learn how to mask your nervousness.

When you walk into a place carry yourself with the air of importance, be polite.

if you have questions ask them, be confident but not arrogant.

Sound sure walk in with purpose, learn to bluff your way through but also know when to back off.

When you are on a date and your early always have enough money to buy yourself a drink while you wait don’t forget your vex money .

Even when you are dressed down always pick your pieces carefully, be spick and span.


Be FABulous



The Perfect Wardrobe Cluster


A perfect wardrobe is built in clusters..

Little pieces that you can mix and match.

in order to build a perfect cluster chose clothing that you can mix and match in colors that compliment each other.

Eg a skirt that fits every jacket you own and a jacket that fits both skirts and trousers that you own.

You don’t need to have too many clothes to achieve this all you need is enough clothes to swap with and more accessories

accessories 20% clothes 10%

Even those on a budget can do this as well because its not the amount of clothes you have but the ability to carefully choose your pieces, to be able to curb the urge to buy things you don’t need and buying only relevant timeless pieces.

a simple colorful scarf can put a spin in an outfit or a broach, this is why having more accessories is one the keys.

Carefully planning your outfits so as to look effortless stylish is another major key.

Be FABulous.


Stylespiration For The Week

This weeks stylespiration has a bit of everything..!



What do you think?



Enjoy Your Week….!

Be FABulous.




I dont always have a loving relationship with my fro but thats how most relationships are right?

Some days its a battle of wills, i want it to look a certain way but it has a mind of its own so it looking at me with arms folded like let me see how you will do this without my cooperation.

Then i smile and say look at you when i have scarves all around the house.


So like every relationship it takes understanding, patience & compromise.

Always always have scarves and pins to rescue you during these battles for peace sake.

I use my Ori/Okwume (shea butter) all the time, its my go to product, my other product is what i call an elixir its a cocktail of oils extracted from different african herbs.

Protective Styling is the way only, it takes away the wahala of detangling… the horror of detangling *sigh*.

Putting your hair in small three strand braids before you go to bed, makes it easy to comb and saves a bit of styling time, while making the hair look a bit smoother.

When you braid with ori it helps it set and leaves curls when you losen it… Yup the kinky curls we like.

So its really not rocket science to care and manage your fro.



Be FABulous

*Wahala -Trouble/Problems

Top 5 Lippies For Vals Day




Its Valentines day.. in a bit, how are you preparing?

These lipstick picks will leave you looking smooky hot and stylish..!

I think you should try them not just for vals day but they are very welcomed in every makeup bag because each color speaks volumes and it gives a different sophisticated look each time you wear it.

These are colors I cant cant get enough of, I thought i should share with you *wink*

Be FABulous

7 Ways To Build Your Character


its ideal to have a strong character, here are ways that can help,

  • Be Truthful
  • Be Courageous
  • Be Emphatic
  • Surround Yourself With People You Can Learn From
  • Self Improvement Is A Goal
  • Build On Yourself Confidence

Be FABulous

Making An Impression Pt2





We are still talking Impressions..!

How do you make a lasting impression?? How do you not cut across as trying too much?

There are two ways you can make an impression, Verbal Or Non-Verbal.

These are ways you communicate yourself to others, the most important is Non-Verbal, your clothes do the talking first before you open your mouth to say anything.

And when you finally get to talk , more than half of the time the tone of your voice matters more than what you are saying.

This is why a nice person might cut across as offensive simply because the person is high pitched.

Don’t judge a book by its cover is for books, consciously or unconsciously you will be judged by your cover which is your appearance- Munoyedi Freda Ogbolumani

This is to say that if you understand that your voice as a major part of communication can influence those around you thereby  adding to your charm and charisma, you will tone and tune it to suit the current role you are playing.

Be Fabulous


New Week StyleSpiration..

Here is a mix of work clothes and casual ideas to jump start your week, hope it helps.

Have A Wonderful New Week,

Be FABulous







Perfume Basics




Perfumes, Yes perfumezzzz We all love to smell nice and edible, here are a few tips on buying and using a perfume.

You wouldn’t want your friends or spouse to choke because of your perfume,the aim is to smell nice not cut off the air circulation….

The essential oils of a perfume react differently with each person.

Perfume; Also called Extract or extrait  are the purest form and the most expensive, last longer too.

Eau De Parfume (EDP)

Is the most popular, provides a lasting fragrance and does not cost as much.

Eau De Toilette (EDT)

This scent is lighter and doesn’t linger as much

Eau De Cologne (EDC)

Sometimes interchangeable with Eau de toilette, light fresh fragrance mixed with citrus oils.

Floral: this blend is mostly from flowers and it’s the largest and most popular, this includes roses, carnation, blossom, gardenia and jasmine.

Citrus: this blend is among the oldest scents, they project sharp natural refreshing and uplifting fragrance, Tangerine, orange, Lime, Mandarin and Lemon.

Oriental: Are a mixture of heady spices, Amber ,Balsams, and Resins, they are warm, exotic and sensual, good for evening wear.

Green: This have fresh, sharp grassy scents blended with Pine, Juniper, Leaves and Herbs, they are sporty are most suited for day time use.

Fougere; Is combination of fresh herbs and mossy ferns with earthly overtures.

The season should also determine the type of perfume to use, Dry season when the sun is out lighter fragrances are suitable, raining seasons warm and intimate aromas.

So, if you prefer something light, choose a citrus-based. Flowery perfumes tend to be sweeter and a bit stronger, while earth-based are simple fragrances that take their base scents from minerals and plants other than flowers, like vanilla or cinnamon. For the full-on sexy effect, however, try a musk. Musk is general a scent taken directly from animals or is an artificial fragrance designed to smell like animal musk.

Trials and Testing:

This is the part that is gets you worked up because sometimes you all in love first with the bottle but the scent is not what you want, Now that you’ve decided the type you want let the testing begin.

Put a little on your wrist and sniff it after a few minutes sniff it again. Perfumes have layers of scents usually after the first scent evaporates, the base oil that contain the fragrance remains on your skin.

To overcome the nose fatigue ,take in fresh air or smell something that carries your own smell like your shirt sleeve or armpit.

Be FABulous

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